Our Response to Change can be A Main Cause of Stress
Change, as a main cause of stress, can not be completely avoided. Change and stress are part of life. Look at the natural world and you will see ongoing change. The seasons change, the tides change, the earth turns. Beings are born, they live for awhile, and they leave. The changes are continuous. Adapting to Change Requires Energy The energy required to adapt to change is called "adaptation energy."
Hans Selye
discovered that even changes we consider joyful create stress. He called this eustress. Changes which we are not happy about Selye called distress. Not surprisingly, distress can be more damaging to our bodies.Walter Cannon, another pioneer in our understanding of stress, coined the term homeostasis. Homeostasis describes the body's natural tendency to maintain balance and stability in essential biological systems. Homeostasis is required for health. From this we can understand why our response to change is often a main cause of stress. If the challenges of excessive change overwhelm our homeostatic mechanisms, then our bodies can not maintain the required stability for health. Then stress and illness follow. However there are strategies for coping with stress and change that help... Sometimes We Can Choose to Reduce the Changes in Our LivesThese 6 habits can increase our stability and reduce the amount of change and stress in our lives: - keep a regular daily and weekly schedule,
- get up at the same time every day,
- go to bed at the same time every day,
- eat meals at the same times every day,
- eat simple easily digestible foods that our bodies are familiar with, and
- exercise daily.
But even when we do this...Some Changes are InevitableThis is true no matter how hard we try, or how many experts we consult. Change is going to happen in our lives. Change requires us to adapt and grow. It takes energy. We may have to: - reorganize our lives, or
- learn new skills, or
- make new relationships, or
- create new habits, or
- change our ideas and beliefs.
These Life Events are Usually Experienced as a Main Cause of Stress:These events often require major change and adaptation in our life.- Getting married or divorced,
- Having a child,
- Death of a loved one or close family member,
- Having a serious health challenge,
- Serious illness of a loved one or close family member,
- Loss of job or profession,
- Starting a new job or profession,
- Loss of money or prestige,
- Moving to a different house or city.
Adapting to Change is Easier When We Are Emotionally Peaceful Hans Selye recommends that we "do not put up resistance in vain." By peacefully accepting the changes which are unavoidable we can reduce our stress levels. This is an important strategy for coping with stress and change. This idea is expressed in the Serenity Prayer used in many
12 Step Recovery Programs and Groups.
“God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I can not change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.”
Although our response to change is commonly a main cause of stress, change is necessary for achieving our goals. When we accept the necessity to change, we can more easily take the steps required to adapt, grow and fulfill our potential. Fortunately, Stress Relief Solutions Do Exist
Healthy lifestyle choices
can give us more energy, make us stronger and more resilient. Healthy habits enable us to meet life’s inevitable challenges more easily. They help reduce the negative impact of all major types of stress and common causes of stress. They help with stress prevention.Wander through this website and you may find some ideas and suggestions which are just perfect for you.
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Sources: Selye, Hans. “The Nature of Stress.” http://www.icnr.com/articles/thenatureofstress.html stress. (2008). Encyclopaedia Britannica. Encyclopaedia Britannica 2007 Deluxe Edition. Chicago: Encyclopaedia Britannica.

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